It is what It is

My entire topic shifted as I sit here watching Basketball Wives, I realize that we have a serious problem with letting go. God does not violate our free will, but we tend to focus on why people are leaving instead of accepting that it is their choice. In this situation it is friends wanting to know WHY instead of accepting WHAT...which is people move on, grow apart or simply change their minds. If we could all admit that while it may suck and we might not be ready to let go; that in the end if we accept that it is what it is we would find peace sooner and our next blessing will be that much better.