Its not always what you want, but what you must...

I have that hollow feeling in my stomach, tomorrow is suppose to be a turning point, but what happens when fear has you paralyzed? When what you must do is not what you want to do, but standing still will only prolong the pain making moving forward in the healing process impossible. You have to be brave, you have to remember that the bad outweighed the good and that the horrible times were deal breakers. You have to also remember that people don't change for you, they only change when they can no longer live with their conscience. When how they treat others makes them ill inside. Voluntarily standing in fear is submitting to the toxins, letting the poison kill you. We wouldn't have to talk ourselves out of a burning building, we would just escape as fast as possible, so why must we keep going back to get burned in bad relationships; why don't we listen to our instincts and run??? I learned today from a statement made by Iyanla Vanzant " that you have to be willing to lose everything to gain yourself." I give freely it all accepting the pain to just have me back.