Control

Do you really have control over your own life? Having faith in God is accepting that he has already written our beginning and end. However that's not my angle tonight but it will come full circle with that last line being the ultimate conclusion. Let's talk about control from an outside view, it seems as if so many people have so much to say about everybody and everything else, which is a wasted investment because there is no true return on inflicting your opinion on the lives of others. I was told once that you should only offer advice to those that ask, but most of us are guilty of being judge, jury and gossip columnist when it comes to what someone else should do with their life. So... I ask what about you? What makes you the expert and just because your view looks good to you which it should To You, doesn't make it a perfect picture for someone else, maybe their picture doesn't fit your frame. God told us to love our enemies, do you wonder why? To me it is simply that we are all different, with different beliefs and directions that doesn't make us wrong, it just makes us US, and if we loved despite of... we would spend less time trying to force change on others and more time accepting that they are accepting who we are even if we think we are perfect that's not the view they see, they just don't waste time trying to control who you are.