Wednesday, January 11, 2012

The Hand I Hold: The Marriage Creed

One month and we become an us and you and I must take a back seat;
losing a piece of our individuality as we fight to maintain balance. As we learn what our new normal must be, erasing and revising because we are creating the rules as we go. Learning how communication becomes a perfect beat. How to talk without speech. How to think as one even when we are apart. How to love without touch. How to give without bending. How to be a husband and wife without losing the friendship. How to be partners without creating a business. How to be mad without resentment. How to give in without giving up. How to love through the pain and as we make this journey understanding that life will pull, but for as long as you have
the hand I hold nothing can separate us. 

I wrote this many years ago and while I am NOT an expert on relationships, I hope that the principals in this passage will help in all relationships; new or old, dating or married or about to marry. It is not enough to just believe in love, you have to operate in love to have peace and success.

1 comment:

  1. I have to share this. So many people need to read your blog. this stuff is amazing.

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