Thursday, January 19, 2012

The Pretend Wife

By self admission she is a hood rat, never had a thing.
 Unhappy in her own plight. Striving to be wifey,
when in reality she is only lifey and I don't mean longevity.
I mean thank you for making my life easier
 because he knows she'll do whatever it takes to keep him.

His personal cheerleader glad to sing the wife gone wrong song. See what she will never understand is that this here is detailed; a road map of emotions paved with love and hate, tears and fears, pain and joy. Building, breaking and rebuilding, this here is not just her fault.
What she keeps forgetting is this is about a fight between a husband and his wife
and she the other woman that is - knows nothing about being his hopes and dreams,
just happy with a temporary contract on his team.

She would like to call herself girlfriend at best, but even that label holds far too many nice connotations and friend of girls she is not, because she forgot that while this husband is wrong;
 he can only do his dirt because she opted to be his second choice.


Side Note:
Ladies stop becoming comfortable in the role of the other woman and please stop pretending that you received a prize because she must have been slippin' in order for you to end up in this position, trust me if he will cheat with you, he will cheat on you. Do you value yourself so little that you would settle for someone else's man? People cannot do what you don't allow them to and if we loved being a woman first, we would embrace that bond of sisterhood and never ever want to see one of us hurt because you put a man first.

And fellows I say all of this in reverse, women honor your man and stop creeping with his brotherfriend.

No one ever has to be hurt by a cheater; be adult enough to just be single.

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