Control your own power

I posted today that when people think they have control over you, eliminate the things that give them power. It hit me like a ton of bricks just this morning, because I've been trying to control my sanity through silence. Logically it made sence to talk only when necessary to avoid additional conflict, but what little that is left to say becomes very necessary to those that aren't finished talking. Well the only way to end the conversation especially over this small stuff is to get rid of the power and in my case the business of it all isn't that large, but for peace of mind at this point I would let it all go. People harass you only when they know they can, but if I willingly resolve all of those issues, anything beyond that is them just being an Ass. I started this post before the sun came up this morning and then got busy with the day. I went to rent a car and there stood this lady in gucci loafers and expensive shades, well put together, I assume she's paid. Never judge a book, I rode with the employee to drop this lady off and she said to her surprise the husband she's divorcing dropped her insurance, so he's pist to be paying out of pocket to get her Lexus fixed. That she's taken a hostess position, living penny to paycheck but she's free and that's the best way to be. I love confirmation, she gave up the fancy house and all his financial security, 24 years of the power struggle to take back her own. You can't tell me that peace of mind is worth nothing, if you're willing to leave it all behind. Trust me its priceless to gain your power back.