Healing starts with accepting the facts

Healing begins the moment you accept that the hurt is there because you want to matter to someone but you don't. This sort of pain is not just between a husband and wife, but with people you hold dear that reduce your position in their life. That however is the key phrases "their life" we make the choice to accept people into our lives, parents make the choice to have children, but that doesn't mean they know how to be parents. We pick our friends, but that doesn't mean they will always be there and no one says I do, with the intention of one day sayng I don't. People change their minds everyday, does it suck? Of course, but the question becomes what do you choose to do with the pain left in your life and how long do you intend to hold on to it?